A TEST







This is a test of the EFS(Emergency Friendship System)


A Friend....
(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you
sometimes just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you ! !



(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over



(J)ust likes to "be" with you
(
K)eeps you close at heart
(
L)oves you for who you are
(
M)akes a difference in your life



(N)ever Judges
(
O)ffers support
(
P)icks you u
p when you are feeling low
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits



(S)ays nice things about you
(even) when you aren't there
(
T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(
U)nderstands you
(
V)alues you



(W)alks beside you
(X)-plains thing you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen
if it's for your own good

and
(Z)aps you back to reality when you are going off the deep end



 

 

- Listening -
By: Author Unknown

 

  A midnight Phone call stirs a mother's heart like nothing else. We all know what it's like to get that phone call in the middle of the night.

This night was no different. Jerking up to the ringing summons, I focused on the red, illuminated numbers of my clock. Midnight. Panicky thoughts filled my sleep-dazed mind as I grabbed the receiver.

"Hello?" My heart pounded, I gripped the phone tighter and eyed my husband, who was now turning to face my side of the bed.

"Mama?" The voice answered. I could hardly hear the whisper over the static. But my thoughts immediately went to my daughter.

When the desperate sound of a young crying voice became clear on the line. I grabbed for my husband and squeezed his wrist.

"Mama, I know it's late. But don't...please don't say anything until I finish. And before you ask, yes, I've been drinking. I nearly ran off the road a few miles back and... " I drew in a sharp, shallow breath, released my husband's arm and pressed my hand against my forehead. Sleep still fogged my mind, and I attempted to fight back the panic.

Something wasn't right. "I got so scared. All I could think of was how it would hurt you if a policeman came to your door and said I'd been killed. I want...to come home. I know running away was wrong. I know you've been worried sick. I should have called you days ago but I was afraid....afraid...."

Sobs of deep-felt emotion flowed from the receiver and poured into my heart.

Immediately I pictured my daughter's face in my mind, and my fogged senses seemed to clear, "I think ---"

"No! Please let me finish! Please!" She pleaded, not so much in anger, but in desperation. I paused and tried to think what to say. Before I could go on, she continued. "I'm pregnant, Mama. I know I shouldn't be drinking now, especially now, but I'm scared, Mama. So scared!"

The voice broke again, and I bit into my lip, feeling my own eyes fill with moisture. I looked up at my husband, who sat silently mouthing, "Who is it?"

I shook my head and when I didn't answer, he jumped up and left the room, returning seconds later with a portable phone held to his ear. She must have heard the click in the line because she asked, "Are you still there?

Please don't hang up on me! I need you. I feel so alone." I clutched the phone and stared at my husband, seeking guidance. "I'm here, I wouldn't hang up, " I said. "I should have told you, Mama. I know I should have told you.

But, when we talk, you just keep telling me what I should do. You read all those pamphlets on how to talk about sex and all, but all you ever do is talk.

You don't ever listen to me, Mama. You ever let me tell you how I feel.

It is as if my feelings aren't important. Because you're my mother you think you have all the answers. But sometimes I don't need answers.

I just want someone to listen."

I swallowed the lump in my throat and stared at the how-to-talk-to- your-kids pamphlets scattered on my night stand.

"I'm listening," I whispered.

"You know, back there on the road after I got the car under control, I started thinking about the baby and taking care of it. Then I saw this phone booth and it was as if I could hear you preaching to me about how -- people shouldn't drink and drive. So I called a taxi. I want to come home."

"That's good honey," I said, relief filling my chest. My husband came closer, sat down beside me and laced his fingers through mine.

"But you know, I think I can drive now."

"No!" I snapped. My muscles stiffened and I tightened the clasp on my husbands hand. "Please, wait for the taxi. Don't hang up on me until the taxi gets there."

"I just want to come home, Mama."

"I know. But do this for your mama. Wait for the taxi, please."

I listened to the silence, fearing. When I didn't hear her answer, I bit into my lip and closed my eyes. Somehow I had to stop her from driving.

"There's the taxi, now." Only when I heard someone in the background asking about a Yellow Cab did I feel my tension easing.

"I'm coming home, Mama." There was a click, and the phone went silent.

Moving from the bed with tears forming in my eyes, I walked out into the hall and went to stand in my 9 year old daughter's room. My husband came from behind, wrapped his arms around me and rested his chin on the top of my head.

I wiped the tears from my cheeks. "We have to learn to listen," I said to him. He studied me for a second, then asked, "Do you think she'll ever know she dialed the wrong number?"

I looked at our sleeping daughter, then back at him. "Maybe it wasn't such a wrong number."

"Mom, Dad, what are you doing?" The muffled voice came from under the covers. I walked over to my daughter, who now sat up staring into the darkness.

"We're practicing," I answered.

"Practicing what?" she mumbled and laid back on the mattress, but her eyes already closed in slumber.

"Listening," I whispered.

 

 

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I laughed out loud with amazement when I read this one.  Could be true, could be urban legend.  Either way...It's one of my favorites:

Isn't it amazing how God works in our lives! On a Saturday night several weeks ago, this pastor was working late, and decided to call his wife before he left for home. It was about 10:00 PM, but his wife didn't answer the phone.

The pastor let the phone ring many times. He thought it was odd that she didn't answer, but decided to wrap up a few things and try again in a few minutes. When he tried again she answered right away. He asked her why she hadn't answered before, and she said that it hadn't rung at their house. They brushed it off as a fluke and went on their merry ways.

The following Monday, the pastor received a call at the church office, which was the phone that he'd used that Saturday night. The man that he spoke with wanted to know why he'd called on Saturday night.

The pastor couldn't figure out what the man was talking about.

Then the man said, "It rang and rang, but I didn't answer." The pastor remembered the mishap with dialing the wrong number and apologized for disturbing him, explaining that he'd intended to call his wife.

The man said, "That's, OK. Let me tell you my story."

"You see, I was planning to commit suicide on Saturday night, but before I did, I prayed, 'God if you're there, and you don't want me to do this, give me a sign now.' At that point my phone started to ring. I looked at the caller ID, and it said, 'Almighty God'. I was afraid to answer!"

The reason why it showed on the man's caller ID that the call came from "Almighty God" is because the church that the pastor attends is called Almighty God Tabernacle!!

(See, it made you smile, too, didn't it?)


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